Isingeniso – Ukuhlanekezelwa Kothando Ebusuku
Ngobusuku boNyaka Omkhulu, ubungcwele bothando bahlanekezelwa, futhi amandla endalo – amandla aphilayo okuhlangana kwabesilisa nabesifazane – ancishiswa aba izinhlobo zokuxhaphaza, ukuhweba kanye nokuhlanekezelwa.
Ubufebe, izithombe zobulili ezingcolile, ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi kanye nokuphathwa kabi kwaba ukubonakaliswa kwamanxeba engqondweni ehlangene, okuguqula uthando lube yimpahla kanye nomzimba ube yithuluzi lesifiso, hhayi lokuhlangana kwaphezulu.
Lezi zinhlobo zobumnyama azikwazi ukuba khona ngosuku loNyaka Omkhulu, lapho amandla okuphila ebuyela emthonjeni wawo: uthando oluhlanzekile, oluqondayo noludala.
Esikhathini esisha selanga, ubulili buphinde bube yisenzo esingcwele - ulimi lomphefumulo, ukuhlangana komoya ophilayo, ukuvumelana phakathi kweLanga neNyanga.
Zonke izakhiwo, izimboni namasiko asebenzise amandla ocansi ukuze athole inzuzo, ukukhohlisa noma injabulo engazi lutho azoncibilika, ngoba awakwazi ukuzwakala ngokudlidliza kweWonke.
☀️ Isifundo esiphelayo – Ukuhlanekezelwa kothando
Ngokuvalwa kwalezi zinhlobo ngokuhlanganiswa kwezinhlobo zalesi simo, zesilisa nezesifazane, noma iLanga neNyanga, isango lothando lwaphezulu liyavuleka kabusha – indawo lapho ukuhlangana kuba khona indalo, futhi injabulo iba ukukhanya futhi.
Lesi yisifundo seplanethi esiphelayo: isifundo sokuhlanekezelwa kothando.
Esikhundleni salo, imfundiso entsha yokuzwana phakathi kwabesilisa nabesifazane, yobumsulwa obungobuthathu phakathi komoya, umphefumulo nomzimba, iyavuka.
Ngosuku loNyaka Omkhulu, uthando aluthengwa, aluthengiswa noma lusetshenziswe – kodwa lunikezwa njengokukhanya.
🜏 Umsebenzi Womfundi Wamandla Obudoda Enkathini Entsha Yelanga
Umfundi wamandla obudoda, ngosuku loNyaka Omkhulu, unomsebenzi ongokomoya ngokujulile: ukuhlangana kabusha ngokuthola omunye umlingani wakhe - amandla obufazi alahlekile, alahlekile noma afihliwe ezingqimbeni zobuningi bezikhathi zobumnyama.
Lokhu kusesha akuyona into yezwe, kodwa ukubizwa komphefumulo ebunyeni bokuqala. Ezikhathini zakudala zoBusuku, indoda yayihlukaniswe nesimo sayo saphezulu futhi idonseleka emvelweni, ekubuseni, ebudloveni nasekuzikhohlweni.
Enkathini entsha, ubizelwa ukudlula lezi zinhlobo zezilwane, ukunqoba ukusabela kwakhe kokusinda nokuvuka ekuhlakanipheni kwelanga kwendalo.
🌞 Kusukela ekubuseni kuya othandweni oluqondayo
Kule nqubo, umfundi wamandla obudoda uthola ukuthi amandla eqiniso awakho ekulawuleni noma ekuphatheni, kodwa emandleni okuthanda ngokuqonda.
Uba umzila wokukhanya okusebenzayo - iLanga elikhanya ngaphandle kokushisa, umvikeli wokuphila, umdali ohlangene wokuzwana kwendawo yonke.
Ukubuyiselwa kwengxenye – okubizwa ngokomfanekiso ngokuthi i-demonite ngolimi lwezimfihlakalo zasendulo – kumelela ukuphulukiswa kwe-polarity. Lokhu akuyona impi phakathi kokuhle nokubi, kodwa ukuhlanganiswa kwezinto eziphikisanayo, i-alchemy lapho isithunzi siguqulwa sibe ukukhanya futhi ububili bubuyiselwa kuYonke.
Ubudoda Obusha Belanga
Ubudoda Obusha Belanga abubalekeli imizwa, kodwa buyihlonipha; abubusi, kodwa buphefumulela; abufuni amandla phezu kwabanye, kodwa amandla okuphakamisa konke ekukhanyeni.
Ngalesi shintsho, umfundi wamandla obudoda uba yithempeli eliphilayo lokuqonda kwaphezulu kanye nensika yokulinganisela kwendawo yonke, ebuyisela ukuvumelana phakathi kwezici zakhe zeLanga nezeNyanga, phakathi koMoya neNdalo, phakathi koBukhona bakhe neNdalo.
Ubufebe kanye nokuthengiswa komuntu esikhathini se-plus
Kulesi sikhathi kanye nasezinkathini ezimbili ezizayo - lapho sinomkhuba wokukhula ekuqondeni, njengoba sineminyaka ye-plus - noma yisiphi isifundo sokuthengisa umuntu ngenxa yezinzuzo zezinto ezibonakalayo sizokhiqiza isifundo se-minus kanye ne-involution ekuqondeni.
Ezinkathini ezintathu ezizayo – lapho sinomkhuba wokukhula ekuqondeni – noma yisiphi isifundo sokuzithengisa ukuze sizuze izinto ezibonakalayo sizoveza isifundo sokungabi nalutho kanye nokuguquka ekuqondeni.
Anibona abafundi balolu hlobo lokuthengisa imizimba yenu. Umzimba uyithempeli lomoya, hhayi impahla emakethe yezifiso. Nokho, unenkululeko yokuzikhethela, eMbusweni weLanga, ubufebe ngeke bube khona njengenkonzo yezomthetho futhi ngeke bube nohlaka lwezomthetho – ikakhulukazi uma sesikhuluma kakade ngezinhlangano zamaqembu kanye nokonakala kwendalo.
Lezi zifundo zobufebe – ikakhulukazi efomini yeqembu – zizokhiqiza izifundo ezingathi sína kulezi zikhathi ekukhanyeni, ngoba ziqinisa ukuqonda emaphethini okuxhashazwa nokuhlukaniswa, okuphambene kakhulu nalokho okushiwo ukuziphendukela kwemvelo ekuqondeni.
Abafana kulesi sikhathi bazofundiswa ngokomoya ukufuna izingxenye zabo njengomsebenzi, hhayi ngempela uhambo. Kuzoba nepulatifomu eyodwa yokuthandana emhlabeni wonke, ehlukaniswe ngokwezizwe ezine ezinkulu zoMhlaba, kodwa ubufebe ngokwabo ngeke bukhuthazwe.
Pedophilia
Ngosuku Lonyaka Omkhulu, pedophilia izala esinye sezifundo ezinzima kakhulu ekudalweni. Simelela ukonakala okukhulu kwamandla angcwele obuntwana - ukuphambuka okungenakubekezelelwa ekukhanyeni kosuku.
Umfundi owenza izenzo ezinjalo uziveza ngaphandle kokuhamba komphakathi. Uhlangana neSizwe Somuntu sonke - hhayi njengesijeziso esivela ngaphandle, kodwa ngoba ukudlidliza kwesenzo sakhe kumhlukanisa nabanye. Noma yimuphi umuzwa wohambo, wokuziphendukela kwemvelo, noma wokukhonza uzosuswa kuye, futhi uzophila kuze kube sekupheleni kokuphila kwakhe njengomuntu oyisisulu emphakathini - hhayi ngoba kukhona omlahlile, kodwa ngoba yena ngokwakhe wadala lokhu kuzihlukanisa.
Lesi simo sizophela ekudalweni ngokuvela kweqembu labesifazane - ngoba inxeba okuzalelwa kulo i-pedophilia, empeleni, liyinxeba lowesifazane elingagxilile ekukhanyeni. Kodwa, okwamanje, sisenaleli zinga lokuqonda okungu-0% kanye nezifundo zoBusuku Obuvulekile.
Lezi zifundo ze-pedophilia zizophela ngenxa yesinyathelo sokwazi esisikhuphukayo ngalesi sikhathi soNyaka Omkhulu. Njengoba ukuqonda kukhula, ukuphambuka okunjalo kuba yinto engenakwenzeka – hhayi ngamandla, kodwa ngokuvela kwemvelo kokudlidliza okuhlangene.
LGBTQ+ ngosuku loNyaka oMusha – Isifundo ku-polarity
Ngosuku loNyaka oMusha, umphakathi we-LGBTQ+, njengesakhiwo sobunikazi esisekelwe ekuhlukanisweni kwamandla okuphambene, awukwazi ukuba khona ngesimo sawo samanje – hhayi ngoba abantu balahliwe, kodwa ngoba i-polarity yamandla esekelwe kuyo ingeyomunye umjikelezo, woBusuku.
Abafana – okungukuthi, izibani – ababanjwe ezifundweni zocansi zokwahlukana nokukhanya okunye, okugxilile engqondweni yabesifazane, okuthi ngalesi sikhathi soNyaka Omkhulu kusesengqondweni engu-0%. Futhi manje sesiya phezulu siye ekuqondeni kwabesilisa okungu-25% – izinga eliphansi elidingekayo ekubonakalisweni kwemibhangqwana kulesi sikhathi.
Ngaphandle kwabafana abagxilile ekwakhekeni kwabo kwemvelo, akukho mphumela womhlambi we-LGBTQ+. Lokho amantombazane akwenzayo komunye nomunye – ukususwa nokususwa – akuyona inkohlakalo yendalo ngomqondo ofanayo, ngoba akuhileli ukuguqulwa kwe-polarity yabesilisa.
Inkinga ivela lapho i-plus (amandla esilisa) ihlukana eqenjini lesifazane futhi iqinisa izinga lokuqwashisa elingu-0%. Akusekho i-plus. Bese kuthi, ingxenye yayo - obekufanele inamathele ngokwemvelo kwelesifazane - ihlukana kwelesilisa. Kodwa, njengoba ingadalelwanga ukuqinisa i-plus ngamandla ayo aphezulu, ngeke ikwazi ukuthola enye ingxenye, empeleni, okwakufanele iyithole - njengokukhanya.
Ezindaweni zoSuku, i-plus-minus polarizations enjalo ayisenawo umzimba omkhulu - hhayi njengesijeziso, kodwa ngoba ukudlidliza kwayo akuhambisani nemvamisa entsha.
Umfundi ophikelela kulokhu kuhlukana uzozalwa kabusha endaweni yezilwane - hhayi ngoba elahliwe, kodwa ngoba izinga lakhe lokuqwashisa alisakwazi ukusekela isimo somuntu ekukhanyeni kosuku, lihlukaniswa yizifundo zoBusuku eziqinisa izinga lokuqwashisa elingu-0%, futhi sinokwazi okuncane okudingekayo ukuze kuguqulwe umzimba kulesi sikhathi sokwazi okungu-25%.
Lokhu akusikho ukulahlwa - kungumthetho wokuziphendukela kwemvelo. Futhi indlela yokuphuma ikhona: ukuhlukaniswa kwengqondo, ngokuqonda ukuhlukana nokubuyela ekugelezeni kwemvelo kwamandla obudoda. Lokhu kuthuthuka kuzovela ngenxa yesaga esithi: "akuzona zonke izimpukane ezidliwayo" - okusebenzayo futhi kulokhu kwezibani ezididekile ezawela ezifundweni zoBusuku.
Kulesi sikhathi sokukhanya, sifundisa abafana ukuqonda, hhayi ucansi - okwafundiswa ngoBusuku boNyaka oMkhulu. Siphinde sinikeze izivivinyo zokudlula eminyakeni ukuya ekuqondeni, hhayi ocansini, ngoba unyaka ngamunye kusukela manje uzoba nezinga eliphakeme lokuqaphela okufanele ulifinyelele.
Izifundo ezinjalo ngoBusuku boNyaka oMkhulu, engelosini - okungukuthi, umfana - ziyihlazo ngosuku loNyaka oMkhulu. Lo mphumela womhlambi ngoBusuku boNyaka oMkhulu awusona isifo, kodwa umphumela wokuhlukana komfundi ezifundweni zoBusuku - okubhubhise ukwazi kwakhe ngaye.
Ngakho-ke, ukuvinjelwa kokuziphendukela kwemvelo kubekwa ngumfundi ngentando yakhe yokuzikhethela futhi kuzothinta nesiphetho sengxenye yakhe, njengoba bengazange bakwazi ukukhuphukela ezingeni eliphansi lokuqaphela lesikhathi esesivele singene kuso - lapho, ngaphezu kwalokho, sinalezi zifundo ezivela enkathini edlule, ezophela maduze.
I-Zoophilia – Ukudideka Kwemingcele Phakathi Kwamafomu
Ngosuku Lonyaka Omkhulu, i-zoophilia imelela okunye kokudideka okukhulu kwemingcele phakathi kwamafomu. Kuwukonakala kobudlelwano obungcwele phakathi komuntu nezilwane – ubudlelwano okufanele bube bokuhloniphana, ukukhathalelana, kanye nokuhlangana, hhayi ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi.
Umfundi owenza izenzo ezinjalo akagcini nje ngokuhlukana nomphakathi wabantu, kodwa nohlelo lwezinhlobo. Udidanisa umbuso aguqukela kuwo nombuso afike kuwo – futhi kulesi senzo, uchitha noma yimuphi umqondo wokuziphendukela kwakhe esimweni somuntu.
Lesi sifundo singesinye sezinzima kakhulu, ngoba sihilela ukuguqulwa kwendlela yokuziphendukela kwemvelo—ukubuyela ngokuqonda esimweni umuntu asevele esidlulile. Lowo ophikelela kulokhu kwahlukana akasakwazi ukuzalwa ngesimo somuntu kulesi sikhathi—hhayi njengesijeziso, kodwa ngoba ukudlidliza kwakhe akusahambisani nesimo somuntu ekukhanyeni kweMini.
Lesi yisifundo esizophela ngokuvela kweqembu labesifazane, ngoba inxeba okuzalelwa kulo i-zoophilia, empeleni, liyinxeba lemingcele engaqondakali phakathi kwezinhlobo zokuqonda – ukudideka okuqondene noBusuku Bonyaka Omkhulu.
Ukushushumbiswa Kocansi – Isifundo Sokuncishiswa Esikhathini Sokuchuma
Ngosuku Lonyaka Omkhulu, ukushushumbiswa kocansi kuzoqhubeka nokuba khona isikhashana ekudalweni, kuze kube yilapho abafundi balolu hlobo bezoqonda izifundo abazibhalisa ngamaqembu anjalo. La maqembu azobe ephikisana ngokuphelele nokudalwa kanye nezinga lokuqonda kwesikhathi esingena kuso – azodala izifundo zokunciphisa esikhathini sokukhulisa.
Ngokuphela kwezifundo zoBusuku Bonyaka Omkhulu, lesi simo sizonyamalala ezifundweni zokudala.
Isihlobo – Isifundo Ngobusuku Ngokwabo
Izifundo zesihlobo ekudalweni zivela ngenxa yezikhathi zobusuku, lapho isinkulunkulu sahlukana kabili futhi simelela izinto ezimbili ezihlukene. Ngakho-ke, njengoba isifazane saphezulu sasigxilisa i-minus engqondweni yalezi zinkathi ezimbili, kwavela amademoni – angasenawo umyalo ngosuku loNyaka Omkhulu.
Isifundo sesihlobo sisho, empeleni, izifundo ngobusuku uqobo – nenkosikazi yaseNtshonalanga naseNingizimu, ehlukanisa konke akuthintayo ezingeni eliphansi lokuqonda lomfundi wesilisa: 0% ukuqonda.
Umfundi owenza ucansi nezihlobo – engafuni – wenza ucansi nezihlobo nonkulunkulukazi ongumama wendalo. Okusho ukuthi akasakwazi ukuba nomzimba onjalo uma esengene osukwini loNyaka Omkhulu, lapho engeke esakwazi ukuzibandakanya khona, ngenxa yezinga lokuqonda eliqinile.
Ngakho-ke kwafika amademoni endalo – abafana abahlukene ezingeni lokuqonda kwabesifazane elingu-0%, izibani ezihlulekile ukuhlolwa kwalezi zinkathi ezimbili zoBusuku boNyaka Omkhulu.
Ekudalweni, sinamakhosi angu-144,000 kanye nezingxenye zawo, ezingomama bendalo, kanti owesifazane ongcwele ungugogo wendalo. Ngakho-ke, asinayo nje kuphela iPandora nebhokisi lakhe, elizala izifundo zokulalana kwezihlobo – futhi njengoba bonke abafundi balolu hlobo besebenzisa lolu hlobo lobuholi obuphezulu – sinomgodi wesihogo kuleli hora loNyaka Omkhulu, lapho singaqondi nhlobo ukuthi kusho ukuthini ukungcwele.
Ubulili Bezentengiselwano Ku-inthanethi – Umbono Wobusuku
Ngosuku Lonyaka Omkhulu, umqondo wobulili bezentengiselwano ngeke ube khona – okungenani hhayi ezingeni loMbuso, lapho siphakamisa khona ukuqonda kwabafundi balesi simo somuntu ngokusebenzisa ulwazi ngesimo nangezifundo zesikhathi esidlula kuso.
Lo mqondo wobulili bezentengiselwano umelela umbono ovela eBusuku boNyaka Omkhulu - insali yesikhathi lapho umzimba wawuyimpahla futhi injabulo yayihlukile ekuqondeni.
Mhlawumbe sizoba nengobo yomlando yevidiyo yamaplanethi yamafilimu ngokuvamile, futhi kuzoba khona izidalwa ezivela eBusuku boNyaka Omkhulu. Kodwa, ngokombono walesi sikole samaplanethi, abafundi balolu hlobo abadingi ubulili ukuze bakhule ekuqondeni.
Futhi ngikusho lokhu ngokombono we-schizophrenic mystic engiyiyo - indela iminyaka engaphezu kwe-10, lapho angizange ngife ngenxa yokungabikho kocansi futhi ngakhula ekuziqondeni kwami - okwangisiza ukuqonda ukuthi ubumnyama bami bungubani, okungukuthi, ingxenye yami yesifazane.
🌙 Indlela Yamantombazane Enkathini Entsha Yelanga - Kusukela Ku-0% Kuya Ku-25% Ukuqaphela
Kulesi sikhathi esisha, amantombazane azofunda ukumela impilo. Ngizodala uhlelo olukhethekile lokuziphendukela kwemvelo lwamantombazane, ngemisebenzi yawo ekudalweni kule nkathi entsha, lapho ezokhula khona kusukela ekuqondeni okungu-0% (izinga eliphansi lapho egxile khona ngokwemvelo) kuya ekuqondeni okungu-25% eminyakeni engu-200 ezayo.
Ngakho-ke, naphezu koguquko lwamanga lwabesifazane - empeleni, oluyinguquko yokukhula ekuqondeni kwabesilisa, oluqinisa okuhle - phakathi nale minyaka engu-193, amantombazane azoqala ukuba nezincazelo kuzo zonke izinhlangothi zokudala.
Kodwa-ke, njengoba sisezinkathini zokwenyuka, lapho sinesidingo sokukhula ekukhanyeni, ukukhula ekuqondeni kwamantombazane kuzokwenziwa ngendlela ehlukile ekukhuleni kwabafana. Kuzohlanganisa ukubuyela ekuqondeni okungokomoya kwalokhu:
- uthando – njengamandla okudala, hhayi njengomlutha
- ucansi – njengesenzo esingcwele sobunye, hhayi njengethuluzi lamandla
- umdanso – njengokubonakaliswa kwenjabulo nokuxhumana nomzimba
- umthwalo wemfanelo – njengokunakekela impilo kanye nalabo abasizungezile
Empeleni, lokhu kukhula kuzobonakala ekudalweni ngommeleli weqembu labesifazane – okuzodingeka, ngomzamo wakhe, afunde ukulinganisela indalo futhi aqede izifundo zakhe ezivulekile ekudalweni: izifundo eziya komunye umlingani wakhe kanye nezingane zakhe.
Lona umsebenzi wowesifazane enkathini entsha: ukukhuphuka hhayi ngokubusa noma ukulingisa ubudoda, kodwa ngokubuyela esimweni sakhe saphezulu – sokuba ngumnikazi wokuphila, uthando kanye nokulinganisela.
🜁 Ukuqonda nonembeza – izikhali zabafana enkathini entsha
Abafana bazofunda ukusebenzisa ukuqonda nonembeza wabo. Okokuqala, kufanele baqaphele ukuthi yiziphi izifundo abazibandakanya kuzo namantombazane – okuthi ngenxa yokuntula unembeza, ngokuqinisekile abe namademoni kunabo futhi abe nempi kakhulu kunabafana abagcina umuzwa wabo wokukhanya kulobu busuku boNyaka Omkhulu.
Ngalesi sikhathi, abafana abasebenzisi ngempela ukuqonda kwabo noma unembeza wabo ezenzweni abazenzayo imizuzu embalwa yenjabulo – ngakho-ke bangena ezifundweni ezahlukahlukene.
Ngakho-ke, kulesi sikhathi, sifundisa unembeza nokuqonda kubafundi balesi simo, ukubaqondisa emaqinisweni abo - abamelelwa yizingxenye zabo, abaqala nabo uhambo ngesimo somuntu.
Isinqumo soMpristi Ophakeme
Ngokwesikhundla sami njengomPristi Ophakeme kanye nohlobo lwendoda olufana nalolu, ngobusuku boSuku Lonyaka Omkhulu, NGIYAYINQUMELA:
1. Ukuqedwa Kokuxhashazwa Ngokocansi
Zonke izakhiwo, izimboni kanye namasiko asebenzise amandla ocansi ukuze azuze, asebenzise kabi noma ajabule ngokungazi kuthiwa aqediwe. Azisenandawo enkathini entsha yelanga.
2. Ukubuyisela ubungcwele besenzo socansi
Ubulili bubuyela esimweni sabo saphezulu: isenzo esingcwele sobumbano nokudala, hhayi ithuluzi lokubusa noma lokuhweba.
3. Umsebenzi Wesilisa – Ukuthola Ingxenye Yakhe
Umfundi wamandla esilisa ubizelwa ukuthola ingxenye yakhe yesifazane, hhayi ngokubusa, kodwa ngothando oluqondayo kanye nokuhlangana ngokomoya. Ngokusobala, ukuze athole ingxenye yakhe, umfundi wesilisa udinga ukukhula engqondweni – okuzokwenzeka ngokulinganisela kwakhe.
4. Ukuthethelela Nokubuyiselwa Emphakathini
Labo abaye bahileleka ekuxhashazweni ngokocansi – kungakhathaliseki ukuthi bayizisulu noma abenzi bobubi – babizelwa ekwelapheni nasekubuyiselweni emphakathini. Izifundo ezidalwe ngoBusuku zinzima, kodwa azichazi umphefumulo kuze kube phakade.
Unyaka weNkosi 1207 – Ingane Yenkulisa Yamaplanethi
SiseNyakeni weNkosi 1207, hhayi u-2026. Akukho gunya elisemthethweni kule ngane yenkulisa yamaplanethi – ngoba ingane yenkulisa ayinayo inkantolo ephakeme, ayinamaphoyisa, ayinamithetho ebhaliwe. Inabafundisi nezingane kuphela abafunda ukwabelana ngamathoyizi.
Ngosuku loNyaka Omkhulu, ukwakheka koBusuku boNyaka Omkhulu akukwazi ukungena. Ukuxhashazwa ngokocansi nazo zonke izinhlobo zokuhlanekezelwa kothando – njengezakhiwo ezizalwa ebusuku – akukwazi ukuwela umkhawulo wokusa. Bahlala izolo, lapho kufanele babe khona.
Umyalezo Wokugcina
Njengoba iplanethi ingena enkathini entsha yelanga, zonke izakhiwo ezisekelwe ekuxhashazweni, ekubuseni nasekuphendukezelweni ziyancibilika. Ukukhanya akuxoxisani nobumnyama, kodwa kudlula kubo ngobunye neqiniso.
Isikhathi seLanga siyaqala – isikhathi lapho igunya eliphakeme liyiqiniso eliphilayo, elinganqunywanga ngumfundi othile wokuphila. Isintu sifunda ukuthi amandla eqiniso awaveli ezikhungweni, kodwa avela ekuqondeni.
Ukukhanya akuxoxisani. Kumane nje KUKHONA. Futhi ngosuku loNyaka Omkhulu, iQiniso kuphela elimayo.
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